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"Whatever you do, if it's a girl, don't call her Natasha," was the first bit of advice a Turkish friend gave me about having a baby in Istanbul. While a common and inoffensive name in the US and Russia, in Turkey and many other European countries, Natasha doesn't have the best connotation. It tends to be slang for, well, a certain kind of professional woman from Eastern Europe, or just a gold-digger; not things with which you want your baby to be associated. Naming a baby is always a difficult decision, but when you live a place where local names sound foreign to you, your own country's names become foreign names as well.
Since the beginning of my pregnancy abroad, I've been certain I wanted to learn the baby's gender as soon as I could, feeling that enough things were a mystery when having a baby in a foreign country and I didn't need to add to them. My husband and each of our mothers disagreed, feeling a surprise is nicer, but suddenly my husband came home from work having changed his mind. He explained that he could never get the Turks to understand why he'd want it to be a surprise and try to tell him that he could find out nowadays. "But you know they can tell now? They can see in the ultrasound," they'd say, perplexed. This is a similar reaction to my questions about cloth diapers or natural childbirth. There's a newer and better way, they argue, so why wouldn't we want that?Continue reading Knocked up abroad: foreign baby names in a foreign countryKnocked up abroad: foreign baby names in a foreign country originally appeared on Gadling on Fri, 15 Apr 2011 12:00:00 EST. Please see our terms for use of feeds.Permalink | Email this | Comments
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